March 1, 2022

Men Are Not Greek Gods…Whew!!!

Men You and I are not Greek Gods. We do not have to hold the weight of the world on our shoulders. To our Women friends.. we are sorry... please…
July 2, 2020

Nice Guys Are Full Of Sh*t

Nice guys are full of sh*t No More Mr. Nice Guy… What does it mean to be a “Nice Guy?" Not what I first thought. The label had a different…
June 4, 2020

I Can Feel Your Pain..

Empathy is not for the weak of heart… I feel your pain… Perhaps something you may have said yourself… Why do women naturally relate to others' pain or joy… Why…
June 3, 2020

Chainsaw Or Scalpel

“You are one of the most intense people I know” Bruce stared at me. Our eyes locked. I can recreate the moment and it happened thirty-five years ago… I denied…
June 2, 2020

I Can’t Imagine Another Man Raising My Kids.

Tom was shut down, numb and couldn’t feel. Submerged in a barrel of ice water for several minutes. Shaking, he appeared unaffected by the cold icy water. It wouldn’t be…
June 1, 2020

You should be ashamed of yourself

You Should Be Ashamed of Yourself…. Six words that changed my life. I was three years old and had finished a bath after a family Sunday night dinner.  Fifty years…
May 31, 2020

Shhh I know your secret(s)

Shh, I know your secret!   One problem in a man’s life are the secrets and transgressions he tucks away.   The ones he hides from others. The smallest secret…
May 28, 2020

My Assistant Walked In On Me Crying At My Desk

I’ve never seen a grown man cry like that before. I cracked, I was balling and there was snot running out my nose. It had been years since I had…